Hi Margo, that you for taking the time to comment. Are you saying that I should forfeit a career for companionship? Also, I’m not aiming for fancy vacations, a big house, or anything like that. I’m looking for my bills to be paid, debts to be taken care of and enjoyable family vacations wherever they may be. We didn’t have the luxury of putting away tons of money before getting married. We are taking care of what we need to put a roof over everyone’s head and food in bellies. I want to be able to “retire” knowing medical expenses won’t hurt us. Also, I’ve noted that no one who has commented has considered whether or not either of us have medical expenses that could use a large part of what we make…